Q: Hi, Doc. I am a puzzled year-old female. I work hard at my studies and have not had much to do with boys so far. In fact, when I was 15, I swore a solemn oath that I would remain a virgin until I got married. But a couple of months ago, I met the most wonderful guy.
Doctor's Advice: Would I lose my virginity through oral sex?
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Losing your virginity is a unique experience. It can be hard to know just what to expect. What will it feel like, when should you do it, and how can you stay safe during your first time? The words "virginity" and "sex" mean different things to different people, regardless of whether they have sex with people of the same or different genders. Whatever definition people use, many feel anxious about having sex for the first time. This concern is totally normal, but rumors and myths that circulate among friends and on the internet can create unnecessary fears.
Poll: Would you consider oral sex = losing virginity?
Whatever your reason for asking this question, we want to help you figure out the answer and maybe even help you make some decisions going forward. It seems like girls get judged for being a virgin and boys get judged for not being a virgin. Things like — are you in a safe relationship with someone who cares about you? Are you putting yourself at risk for sexually transmitted diseases STDs? So the better question may be — Do you think oral sex is safer than vaginal sex?
In the words of Jarvis Cocker, do you remember the first time? Whatever the circumstances, losing your virginity is a universal rite of passage that you only get to do once. Is it defined as your first significant sexual experience, or is it all about what bits went where?