Hook up culture has become the norm in today's day and age, and whether you are here for it or not, it's only realistic to accept that it is a part of today's dating world. If you are someone who is or is looking to casually hook up with someone, there are definitely some things you should keep in mind before you take the plunge. You've got to make sure you are picking the right kind of person to hook up with, and by that I mean choose someone who a isn't an ass and b doesn't get attached easily. Ground rules sound lame but they're important, and by this I don't mean you have to sit there and write a list.
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Sometimes it works out and you end up as more; other times, not so well. Do you actually have a thing for him or have you just fallen for how well he treats you in bed? Make sure you actually care about him and not just his body. Does he seem to have feelings for you? This is a hard one, but you should be able to notice subtle changes in how he acts. The more involved he seems to be with you, the more likely he is to have feelings for you.
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After about 9 months I realized I had really deep feelings for her, at 12 months I confessed them to her. That was 7 years ago and now we are married with a two-year-old. We met on Tinder where I specifically told her I was only looking for a fwb. We saw each other once or twice a month for a year, very casually, before things started really heating up. We were perfect together in and out of bed.
There are plenty of reasons to hook up with a person. You might hook up with a person because you're horny. You might hook up with a person because they're super hilarious, or because they're slide-off-your-chair hot. You might hook up because you're moving soon, and you don't want to get into anything serious.