Doctor orgasm help

If your female partner struggles to climax during sex, it can be frustrating for both of you. Self-esteem, anxiety, exhaustion and stress are just some of the lifestyle factors that can impact orgasmic fun for women. But before you despair that you're doing something desperately wrong and your sexual prowess is entirely to blame, it turns out that lots of women struggle to come and your female partner is not alone. A recent study published in The Archives of Sexual Behavior found that, of the 52, adults that took part in the study, an impressive 95 per cent of heterosexual men pretty much always climax during sex — compared to just 65 per cent of women. Which begs the question: why are the men hogging all the orgasms and, more importantly, how can you help the woman in your life up her come-quota and join you in the pleasure circle?

Back to Sexual health. Some women don't need an orgasm to enjoy sex. However, for other women and their partners, being unable to have an orgasm can be a problem. They can check for any physical reasons that may be causing the problem. If the cause is psychological, it may help to see a sex therapist or doctor. Your GP can refer you, or you can see one privately. Read the answers to more questions about sexual health.

Having difficulty achieving an orgasm is normal for many woman, but with the proper help it can be attained. Your mind needs to stay clear and focused, your nerves sensitive and blood needs to flow to all the right places. Cleveland Clinic is a non-profit academic medical center. Advertising on our site helps support our mission. We do not endorse non-Cleveland Clinic products or services.

Skip navigation! Story from Guide To Orgasms. It doesn't take a doctor or mental health expert to tell you that orgasms feel good. The involuntary contractions and release, plus the combination of feel-good neurotransmitters , can make you instantly more relaxed, happier, and closer to your partner. But the benefits of orgasm extend beyond just feeling good, and some research suggests that orgasms have powerful health benefits.