Anal sex can be tricky. It comes with a lot of how s and what s and do s that many might switch over to their private browser to search for. And while you may have some embarrassing questions about the logistics of backdoor play , know that you should never be ashamed about any of your curiosities, because chances are many others are probably thinking the same thing. To get all of your questions answered, we asked the best person for the job.
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Sign up for our newsletters Subscribe. Q I'm a straight year-old female who has known my fiance since freshman year of college. He has a fetish where he likes to watch women use the bathroom. I knew this, having seen some of his porn early on, and I accepted it. We all have kinks. But while peeing in front of someone isn't that big of a deal, shitting in front of someone is hard. So we had a lovely night going, when I had to poop.
Poop-induced orgasms are more common than you think
Not poop, mud. Photo via Flickr user Eli Duke. We were two bottles of Prosecco down at a work leaving do when the subject turned to: "Have you ever done a shit in front of your boyfriend? The social anxiety surrounding the taking of a number two, along with the general grossness we all feel about poop—and the word poop, for that matter—makes the idea of a fetish for human waste completely unfathomable. How could you find that attractive?
Whether you use clinical terms or plain language, the fear of either urinating peeing or defecating pooping during sex stops a lot of people from exploring sex with a partner, and for those who are already having sex , it can really get in the way of enjoying it. While urinary and fecal incontinence may not have a direct impact on sexual function or response, they can have a huge impact on our sex lives, largely because of fear and shame about the loss of bowel or bladder control during sex, and our very narrow ideas of what sex is supposed to be. The image of great sex that we see splashed across the media and even in our sex education, is of an act of beauty and power, one that is weirdly sanitized.