Girlfriend cant orgasm while im inside

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm, and some even find it impossible. Many more women can orgasm, but only very rarely. There are many, many potential causes for anorgasmia , including illness, medical conditions such as vaginismus, medication such as SSRIs, hormonal birth control, aging, and psychological factors such as past trauma, guilt around sex, or stress. For some, there may be a combination of factors, and others may find no clear explanation.

Whenever I masturbate I can ejaculate with no problems. I have not talked to her about this. Your notion of experimentation is good, as you need to find ways of bridging the gap between solo sex and partner sex — and to practise them until they become easy and habitual. You could try masturbating first, but if that is secretive, you may run the risk of establishing a style that is difficult to change. Rather, aim to incorporate self-pleasuring into your love-making sessions with your girlfriend as a preferred bridging method. Try masturbating to finish in her presence preferably after satisfying her. Some couples even prefer mutual masturbation as a climaxing technique.

Orgasms are not one-size-fits-all. What works for one woman won't work for everyone and what worked for you with one partner might not work with another. Here's the scenario. And you may be too but there's a very good reason to never skimp on the foreplay:.

Dr Sherry Ross says there has long been a gender bias in the way women's sexual dysfunction has been treated compared to men's. One of the most glaring is female orgasms. Women are rarely taught about the intricate details of their anatomy and often work these things out through their own experimenting.