But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now, onto today's topic: tips for having period sex with a partner who is afraid or grossed out by it. Q: My new girlfriend and I have awesome sex — except for one thing.
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Period sex is awkward for everyone — straight, gay, bisexual, period sex awkwardness knows no bounds same goes for first dates or sex in general. We had sex with the lights off and she seemed more into it than usual, if you catch my drift. When we turned the lights back on, it looked liked someone had actually been shot and bled out on their guest bed. Being young and dumb, I tried to use bleach to get the stains out, which then left huge, white stains in the sheets. I was mortified. When I was going down on her, I felt like she was a lot wetter than usual and it really turned me on and we proceeded. When I went to the bathroom to clean myself off, my face and white T-shirt looked like something out of a murder scene — I was covered in blood.
Maybe having sex on your period is your favorite thing. No it does not! It means you see what your body is into and what her body is into and you go from there. The best way to bring up period sex is with a conversation.
Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed by a person on the female genitalia the clitoris , other parts of the vulva or the vagina. Cunnilingus can be sexually arousing for participants and may be performed by a sexual partner as foreplay to incite sexual arousal before other sexual activities such as vaginal or anal intercourse [1] [6] or as an erotic and physically intimate act on its own. However, the transmission risk for oral sex, especially HIV transmission, is significantly lower than for vaginal or anal sex.